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@LovingYou: How do you take care of yourself?

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Loving You? Yes, literally.

We wondered: When you have the time to actually take care of YOU, what do you do to show yourself some love? Thousands of you responded, indicating an overwhelming need for more peace and quiet (and maybe sleep, too!). What else do you need to recharge your batteries? Read on for the full results.

You need peace and quiet

When you have a few moments of down time, 33% of those polled preferred a book or a magazine (or perhaps some social networking time) with a side of peace and quiet. Ohio mom Kelly Nasdeo explains that she is an introvert: “I really need that alone time… several times a day actually, especially if it’s a really active day. It doesn’t have to be long – 10-15 minutes if we have guests, but I get sensory overload if I don’t get it. Mostly I read, but sometimes I’ll play a puzzle game.”

And Manitoba resident Hadass Eviatar takes her peace with a quiet dose of socialization. “Lately I’ve been sleeping in instead of getting up and running. But when I have some time to myself, I do take time to go online and connect with dear friends.” The mom of three wonders: “Does that count?” (We think it does!)

Here are some other diverse quiet-time ideas…

>> Read more: How do you take care of yourself?

Written by Betsy

July 29th, 2010 at 3:33 pm

@SheKnows: How to teach kids to cook (using a video game)

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Teach a kid to cook, and you’ll have to do much less of it. But when time is short, sometimes it’s all you can do just to get a fast dinner on the table. Here’s a fun way to teach your kids to cook: Let this video game do most of the work.

two kids cooking

Teaching kids to cook

My girls are 14, 13 and 10 — a great set of ages to get them really cooking. Over the years, they’ve learned some basics. My 14-year-old, Bailey, can make scrambled eggs and pancakes, grilled cheese, cornbread and brownies, among other things. But when it comes to putting the kids completely in charge of meals, I’ve been remiss. My 10-year-old hasn’t spent much time in the kitchen at all, and she is interested.

They are busy teen/tweens, and I’m a busy, multitasking mom who maybe has a few control-freak tendencies. Usually, I just make dinner because (a) I’m good at it, and (b) I’m fast at it.

The thing is, my kids aren’t learning as much about cooking as they could be. I have a feeling a lot of mamas can relate. Intellectually, we know it’s a sound investment. The trick is finding the time, the patience and the tolerance for chaos and a gigantic mess.

America's Test Kitchen: Let's Get Cooking video game

Fun for kids, big help for moms

When a publicist contacted me about a new game for the Nintendo DS called American’s Test Kitchen: Let’s Get Cooking and asked if I’d like to try it out, I was curious. She sent me a DSi XL, the game and even the ingredients for four of the game’s recipes.

Even better, my children (well, two of them anyway!) were curious. A cooking video game? What a fun idea! They couldn’t wait to get started. Once everything arrived, for two days in a row they prepared very, very nice large family meals (there are six of us for dinner most nights) with minimal adult assistance.

As I type this, my 10-year-old, Mira, is browsing the game for recipes she can make this week. She is considering Pasta Caprese and Strawberry Shortcake. Um? Yum!

Yeah… I like this game.

Next: What you need to know about this game

Then: Find out what we made and how we liked it

@SheKnows: 3 Reasons to check out Twitter

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Twitter: 3 reasons to check it out!.

Just put a new article about Twitter up on SheKnows…

Check it out!

The latest phenomenon to hit the social networking scene is Twitter. Here are three reasons you should give Twitter a try!

What is Twitter?

Twitter describes itself as a microblogging service where you simply answer the question, “What are you doing?” in 140 characters or less. But of course, Twitter is so much more. Major news outlets and trendy magazine sites (follow @sheknows and @pregnancybaby!) feed their headlines via Twitter accounts….

More: Twitter: 3 reasons to check it out!.

Written by Betsy

January 9th, 2009 at 8:25 am

@ChefMom: Roasted Sweet Potato Salad with Onions and Feta

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This flavorful sweet potato salad makes a unique side dish. It also made a light and delicious vegetarian supper the next day!

roasted sweet potatoes

This week our CSA bounty included four tender new sweet potatoes. My husband typically (irrationally!) hates sweet potatoes, but our friendly CSA farmer girl enclosed a recipe for this unique salad that I just HAD to try. With so many layers of strong flavors, I thought maybe he could enjoy sweet potatoes prepared this way. At least, I decided, that if he didn’t like sweet potatoes with FETA, then I would be sadly convinced that he’s never going to like sweet potatoes.

So, we had this for dinner Friday night with steak and butterflake rolls. The verdict? My husband said, “You could almost fool me into thinking these are NOT sweet potatoes!” He liked it! He ate it!

>> Read more and get the recipe for Roasted Sweet Potato Salad with Onions and Feta

Written by Betsy

May 31st, 2008 at 5:13 pm

@ChefMom: Penne alla Vodka

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I don’t know who conceived of this marriage between vodka and marinara, but it is a heavenly one.

For a busy mama faced with a last minute dinner decision, it is a dream come true: Delicious, easy-yet-sophisticated, requires only a few ingredients and fairly quick to assemble.

pasta penne sauce

As an added bonus: It’s vegetarian.

And, at least in my house, the kids LOVE it.

You don’t have to break out the Gray Goose for a quick weeknight meal, but for a truly fabulous dining experience, you should probably use the best ingredients you can find – especially the vodka and the Parmesan.

>> Click for Whole Wheat Penne with Vodka Cream Sauce recipe

Written by Betsy

May 27th, 2008 at 5:03 pm

@ChefMom: Vegetarian adventure… Fun with falafel

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falafel-pita.jpgUpdate on our vegetarian adventure…

Well, we’re not even remotely vegetarian and likely never will be, but I HAVE managed to reduce red meat meals to only one per week, plus we have incorporated 1-3 vegetarian dinners into the meal plan each week. This represents a significant improvement in the healthfulness of our diets!

Also improved is the variety in our meals. My husband is really enjoying this. He loves trying new things – the more exotic the better (franky, more exotic than he’s ever likely to get from me; I’ll never make food with tentacles, let alone eat it!). I’m a midwestern-raised girl, so my food tastes and experiences have long been quite midwesternly conventional (cow, pig, chicken). I don’t think I even tasted my first gyro until I was in college – and I never even considered ordering something as strange as falafel!

So my husband was a little surprised when he saw falafel appear on the menu plan for this week. He was also a little uncertain. He was pretty sure he wasn’t in love with falafel when he tried it in the past. But my research indicated that it is a mainstay for vegetarians and reading various recipes, considering the ingredients and how they blended – I was pretty sure I would like it.

I wasn’t so sure about the kids, though. However, they LOVE hummus, so I presented this as something “kind of like hummus, but cooked differently.” It didn’t hurt that it smelled wonderful as I was preparing it. Garlic and cilantro, cumin and coriander. Cucumber, yogurt and dill. Yum. It was so fresh and delicious – a real pleasure to prepare!

Anyway, we ALL loved it so much (hubby included) that the only problem was I didn’t make enough! I would absolutely double the recipe next time, so everyone got enough for dinner and there would be some leftovers for me and my boy the next day.

>> How to make Pita Falafel at home

Written by Betsy

February 28th, 2008 at 5:08 pm

@ChefMom: Dinner tonight… Cream Taco Casserole

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grated-cheese.jpgDeep in the back of my cookbook cupboard, I unearthed a long-forgotten gem: Best of the Best from Arizona Cookbook. I’m not even sure where this came from, but I browsed through it the other night and my mouth was watering. We are huge Mexican, Tex-Mex, southwestern fusion, etc. food addicts here.

Last week we tried a new enchilada recipe that was a hit! This week we had a enchilada variation that I found in the Arizona cookbook. The recipe may call itself tacos, but this is more like an open face enchilada or enchilada casserole – or even an enchilada pie. Personally, I prefer to make enchiladas this way – so much easier than the hassle of rolling flaky corn tortillas (a task I just hate).

Unlike the previous enchilada recipe, this, um, is not particularly… healthy. It is, however, nutritious and creamy and comforting and OH-so-delicious. Another rave-worthy hit in our household! The kids, the husband – they were all nuts for it.

Kids in the kitchen: It was a gorgeous day yesterday and the kids were outside on their bikes and scooters playing in the park with friends. I was perfectly happy for it to be that way. Had there been a child around, cheese shredding would have been a useful occupation.

Tip: That does remind me, though. I used to always keep packaged shredded cheddar on hand for the convenience factor, but the kids LOVE to shred cheese and it’s such a useful way for them to be involved with me in the kitchen (without being underfoot or otherwise a nuisance) that I’ve taken to buying blocks of cheese just so they can help out. It’s cheaper anyway, and personally I prefer the texture and flavor of freshly grated cheese.

jalepeno.jpgSide dish: I kept it simple… steamed asparagus and some orange sections. I also served this with fresh, chopped jalepeño on the side, because my honey likes it that way. :) He sprinkled them on top of his portion for the additional flavor – and some heat.

Planning ahead: I’m so organized! (For once!) As I was planning my menus this week, I decided I would work smart. Last night we had the cream taco casserole. I grilled and chopped twice as much chicken as I needed and stored half in the fridge for dinner tonight (which is Jen’s BBQ chicken rollups). Hoo-ha! Thanks, Jen!

>> Click here for the Cream Taco Casserole recipe

Written by Betsy

February 26th, 2008 at 4:23 pm

@ChefMom: Dinner tonight… Grilled Chicken Enchiladas

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enchilada-dinner.jpgWe had this for dinner last night. You should have it for dinner tonight!

My 12 year old watched me prepare this meal and asked, “Mom, are enchiladas hard to make?” In fact, they are not difficult, but they have quite a few steps and dirty a lot of dishes/pans. Plan on needing about an hour from start to dinner plate.

Kids in the kitchen: My 10 year old shredded cheese. My 12 year old opened the cans of enchilada sauce and green chiles, plus she set the table and moved all the lunch/snack dishes from the counter to the dishwasher. Next time I’ll probably also have her chop the chicken and assemble a few of the enchiladas, but with time a-wastin’, that’s requires a more leisurely day, like a weekend meal.

Husband in the kitchen: My wonderful husband washed up the bowls and pans as I moved on to the next steps, which helped keep the overall mess at a minimum. <smooch>

Family review: It was a hit! The sauce was a little bit spicy – perhaps a bit spicier than the kids preferred. We had this with steamed corn and tortilla chips and sliced strawberries on the side. The kids used the chips to “dip” into the enchiladas and that helped them deal with the heat. These were super yummy. I loved the chicken rub and the hint of cilantro. My husband was so happy. He loves Mexican and spicy foods and he was SO happy to have something that wasn’t vegetarian or pasta or beans for a change and that actually had MEAT in it. He said “dinner was so good tonight!” at least five times throughout the evening, including right at bedtime. Would I make this again? You bet!

>> Read on for the Grilled Chicken Enchilada recipe!

Written by Betsy

February 21st, 2008 at 4:32 pm

@ChefMom: Vegetarian adventure… Fun with pasta

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penne-pasta-broccoli.jpgI love pasta, but I don’t usually have a lot of variations – most of my creations are some combination of noodles, ground beef, red sauce and cheese. Sometimes I’ll get crazy and alfredo it up. I’m a busy working mom. I love to cook, but I just don’t have enough time or energy to play in the kitchen. Besides, my family is picky and they don’t want to try new foods.

Isn’t that lame? Because, really, there is no excuse! Going (somewhat) vegetarian has forced me out of my comfort zone with food and I’m finding it’s incredibly fast and easy to discover new recipes. We’ve had a couple flops, but we’ve also had some interesting successes. I’ve been impressed by how my family has taken to this culinary adventure.

This week so far we’ve tried two new pasta dishes.

  • Garlicky White Beans, Sage and Orecchiette

  • Whole-Wheat Pasta with Broccolini and Feta

>> Read on for recipes and my impressions of these meals

Written by Betsy

February 21st, 2008 at 4:19 pm

@ChefMom: Vegetarian [mis]adventure…

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16 beansTo get you caught up:

Day 2 of our vegetarian adventure I had chicken taquitos for dinner. It was one of those rare fend-for-yourselves nights. And technically I wasn’t ready for whole hog vegetarian, right? Right.

Day 3 of our vegetarian adventure we had Chick-Fil-A. Yes, I know. Lest you think I’m failing miserably at this so far, let me direct you to…

Day 4 of our vegetarian adventure… I had steak. See?! I can fail worse! It was good, too.

Day 5 of our vegetarian adventure we had a chicken/veggie stir fry with funny little pastas. I didn’t eat the chicken. It was okay. Simple, fast, bland, boring… but healthy. Everyone was satisfied except me. My palate doesn’t like boring. I need to get my menu plan and shopping list together so I can make more interesting fare.

Day 6 of our vegetarian adventure was pizza night. So much for planning and shopping. I’m on a tight work deadline and my kids all had dental appointments right after school. Even getting dinner made was too much of a challenge. I had a big salad (with bacon bits, I confess – the shame, the shame) and one large slice of cheese pizza.

<sigh>

>> Am I ever going to get this figured out? Read on…

Written by Betsy

February 14th, 2008 at 4:08 pm